Friday, December 20, 2013

Decide what you want

Once you have decide what you want to do, be, and have. What do you want to accomplish? What do you want to experience? And what possessions do you want to acquire? You have to decide where you want to be and what does look like to you?
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One of the main reasons why most people don't get what they want is they haven't decide what they want. They haven't defined their desires in clear and compelling detail.

Don't live someone Else's dreams. If you are going to re own your power and get what you really want out of life, you will have to stop saying, "I don't know. I don't care; it doesn't matter to me". When you are confronting with a choice, no matter how small or insignificant act as if you have a preference. Ask yourself, if I did know, what would it be? If I did care, which would I prefer? If it did matter, what would I rather do? One of the easiest ways to begin clarifying what you truly want is to make a list of 30 things you want to do, 30 things you want to have, and 30 things you want to be before you die. This is a great way to get the ball rolling.

Make a list of 20 things you love to do, and then think of ways you can make a living doing some of these things. If you love sports, you could play sports, be a sports writer or photographer, or work in sports managements as an agent or in the front office of a professional team, you could be a couch, a manager, or scout. You could be a broadcaster, a camera operator or team publicist. There are myriad ways to make money in any field that you love. For now just decide what you would like to do.

Clarify your vision of your ideal life.

Your vision is a detailed description of where you want to get to. It describes in detail what your destination looks like and feels like. To create a balanced and successful life, your vision needs to include the following seven areas: work and career, finances, recreation and free time, health and fitness, relationships, personal goals, and contribution to the larger community.

At this stage in the journey, it is not necessary to know exactly how you are going to get there. As that is important is that you figure out there is. If you get clear on the what the how will be taken care of.

The process of getting from where you are to where you want to be is like using the navigational system with GPS technology. For the system to work, it simply needs to know where you are and where you want to go. The navigation system figures out where you are by the use of an on board. Computer that receives signals from three satellites and calculates your exact position. When you type in your destination, the navigational system plots a perfect cause for you. All you have to do is follow the instruction.

Success in life works the same way. All you have to do is decide where you want to go by clarifying your vision, lock in the destination through goal-setting affirmations and visualization, and start moving in the right direction. You continue to move forward. In other words, once you clarify and stay focused on your vision, the exact steps will keep appearing along the way.

High achievers have bigger visions
The greater danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.    - Michelangelo
Always dream big dreams. Big dreams attract big people. It is a very few differences between the super- achievers and the rest of the world is that the super achievers simply dream bigger. John Kennedy dreamed of putting a man on the moon. Martin Luther King jr. dreamed of a country free of prejudice and injustice. Bill Gates dreams of a world in which every home has a computer that is connected to the internet. Buck-minister Fuller dreamed of a world where everybody had access to electrical power.

These high achievers see the world from a whole different perspective-as a place where amazing things can happen, where billions of lives can be improved, where new technology can change the way we live, and where the world's resources can be leveraged for the greatest possible mutual gain. They believe anything is possible, and they believe they have an integral part in creating it.
If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is a compromise.   - Robert Fritz
Create your future from your future, not your past.  -Warner Erhard

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