Friday, May 30, 2014

The Secret to Freedom and Success






Think and Grow Rich- Napoleon Hill

Some books you read. Some books you enjoy. But some books just swallow you up, heart and soul.

Even if it 70 years since the book Think and Grow Rich was written, it is still a highly respected and read books. This classic is a motivational Personal Development and Self-Help Books written by Napoleon Hill. Napoleon Hill, is now counted in the top ranks of the world's winner himself. Hill draws on stories of Andrew Carnegie, Thomas Edison, Henry Ford, and other millionaires of his generation to illustrate principles. While the title implies that this book deals only with how to achieve monetary wealth, the author explains that the philosophy taught in the book can be used to help individuals succeed in all lines of work and to do or be almost anything they want in this world. The book was first published in 1937 during the Great Depression. It had sold over 30 million copies and it remains the biggest seller of Napoleon Hill's books-a perennial best-seller after 70 years (Business Week Magazine's Best-Seller List ranked Think and Grow Rich as the sixth best-selling paperback business book 70 years after it was first published). Think and Grow Rich is listed in John C. Maxwell's A Lifetime "Must Read" Books List. The essence of the book Napoleon Hill's famous statement:

Everything your mind can conceive, you can achieve.

The title says the same in different words. A compelling title might explain initial rushes to buy a book, but in the last 60 years, the world has bought over 30 million copies of Think and Grow Rich why?

Hill refused to accept that success was the domain of luck or background or the Gods; and wanted to provide a concrete plan for success that depended entirely on us. The book also sold because it was not simply Hill's dreamed-up ideas, but a distillation of success secrets of hundreds of America's most successful men, beginning with his parton, steel baron Andrew Carnegie.

What do you want most? Is it Money, Fame, Power, Contentment, Personality, Peace of Mind, Happiness.

The The Thirteen Steps to Riches described in this book offer the shortest dependable philosophy of individual achievement ever presented for the benefit of the man or woman who is searching for a definite goal in life. It is a textbook on individual achievement that come directly from the experience, of hundreds of America's most successful men. It should be studied, digested, and meditated upon.

The very best example of the soundness of this philosophy is Blair, son of Napoleon Hill author of this book, whose dramatic story he has outlined in the chapter on DESIRE. Who born without normal hearing capacity, not only avoided becoming a deaf mute, but actually converted his handicap into a priceless asset by applying the philosophy described his book. After reading you will realize that you are about to come into possession of a philosophy which can be transmitted into material wealth or serve as readily harmony, and in some instances, as in the case of Blair, it can help you master physical affliction.

If you follow this plan persistently you will be almost certain to uncover and appropriate the secret formula described in this book.


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Wednesday, May 28, 2014

How To Deal With of Your Own Stress Soup

“ACE” your life with this fun exercise.

“Remember, stress is information about what is going on in your life,” says Kathleen Hall, Ph.D., founder of both The Stress Institute and Mindful Living Network. “Before you create an action plan, it is great to have a general knowledge of your stress triggers.” 
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Three components are the foundation for living an intentional life in balance, Hall says—awareness, choice and energy. (“Just remember the acronym, ACE your life,” she says.)

 Hall offers this exercise to help: 

Awareness: Reducing your stress begins with increasing your awareness (A) of daily experiences. Listen to what ignites your passion, energy and love, and what drains you, distracts you and irritates you. These are clues to becoming more aware of what you love and what stresses you.

 Action: Take a piece of paper and draw a line down the center, with a plus sign on the left for positives (happiness) and a minus on the right side for negatives (stress). 

Under the plus side of the paper ask yourself, What creates energy and happiness in my life? 

Write down five things such as your work, dog, spouse or playing golf. Think through your day and recall moments that made you happy. After listing your five positive experiences, rate them on a 1-to-3 basis. 1 = Least; 2 = Moderate; 3 = Extreme. 

Add the numbers. If your total is less than 10, please examine your life. “Never forget the five things you love most in your life,” Hall says. “If your life wanders from these, stop and do whatever it takes to move toward your treasure.” 

Under the minus side of the paper ask yourself, What creates chronic stress and unhappiness in my life? 

Write five things that sap your energy and make you worry. These might be finances, your job or a personal relationship. These are your stress triggers. After listing the five things, rate them on the same 1-to-3 basis as you did on the plus side. 

Add the numbers from your list. “If your total is 10 to 15, you are very stressed,” she says, “and you should seek the help of stress-management training, a counselor or your physician.” 

Choice: Now that you identified your major stressors, choice (C) can decrease your stress levels and unhappiness. 

“Your current life is a result of the choices you have already made,” Hall says. “You may not control some of the circumstances in your life, but you can choose your attitude and perception in response to stressful circumstances.” 

Action: Choose one item that you rated a 3 from the negative side of your list. Create a plan that will guide you to resolve this situation either by leaving the situation or changing your perspective of it or the way you deal with it from a negative to a positive. When you know you will be in this situation, make a conscious effort to practice stress reduction. 

Take a look at the positive side of your list, too. Choose one or two things you enjoy most and commit to doing those things more often.

Energy: Developing your awareness and making choices creates new energy (E), health, productivity and happiness, and less stress in your life. Action: “When you decide to live a more mindful life, you will become more aware of the effects of what you are eating, who you are living with and where you go to work each day,” Hall says. “You will begin to notice an energy swelling within you as you become more aware.” 

Source:
Success Magazine


Saturday, May 24, 2014

Thirty Major Causes Of Failures How Many Of These Are Holding You Back.

Life's greatest tragedy consists of men and women who earnestly try, and fail! The tragedy lies in the overwhelmingly large majority of people who fail, as compared to the few who succeed. Analyzing several thousand men and women, 98% of whom were classed as "failures."There is something radically wrong with a civilization, and a system of education, which permit 98% of the people to go through life as failures.

Analysis work proved that there are thirty major reasons for failure, and thirteen major principles through which people accumulate fortunes. As you go over the list, check yourself by it, point by point, for the purpose of discovering how many of these causes-of-failure stand between you and success.

UNFAVOURABLE HEREDITARY BACKGROUND. There is but little, if anything, which can be done for people who are born with a deficiency in brain power. This philosophy offers but one method of bridging this weakness-through the aid of the Master Mind. This is the only one of the thirty causes of failure which may not be easily corrected by any individual.

LACK OF A WELL-DEFINED PURPOSE IN LIFE. There is no hope of success for the person who does not have a central purpose, or definite goal at which to aim. Ninety-eight out of every hundred of those, whom had no such aim. Perhaps this was the major cause of their failure.

LACK OF AMBITION TO AIM ABOVE MEDIOCRITY. We offer no hope for the person who is so indifferent as not to want to get ahead in life, and who is not willing to pay the price.

INSUFFICIENT EDUCATION. Experience has proven that the best-educated people are often those who are known as "self-made,"plied. or self-educate. It takes more than a college degree to make one a person of education. Any person who is educated is one who has learned to get whatever he wants in life without violating the rights of others. Education consists, not so much of knowledge, but of knowledge, but of knowledge effectively and persistently applied. Men are paid, not merely for what they know, but more particularly for what they do with that which they know.

LACK OF SELF-DISCIPLINE. Discipline comes through self-control. One must control all negative qualities. Before you can control conditions, you must first control yourself. Self-mastery is the hardest job you will ever tackle. If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self. You may see at one and the same time both your best friend and your greatest enemy, by stepping in front of a mirror.

ILL HEALTH. No person may enjoy outstanding success without good health. Many of the causes of ill health are subject to mastery and control. These, in the main are:

a. Overeating of foods not conducive to health.
b. Wrong habits of thought; giving expression to negatives.
c. Wrong use of, and over indulgence in sex.
d. Lack of proper physical exercise.
e. An inadequate supply of fresh air, due to improper breathing.

UNFAVORABLE ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCES DURING CHILDHOOD. "As the twig is bent, so shall the tree grow." Most people who have criminal tendencies acquires them as the result of bad environment, and improper associates during childhood.

PROCRASTINATION. This is one of the most common causes of failures. "Old Man Procrastination" stands within the shadow of every human being, waiting the opportunity to spoil one's chances of success. Most of us go through life as failures, because we are waiting for the "time to be right" to start doing something worthwhile. Do not wait. The time will never be "just right." Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along.

LACK OF PERSISTENCE. Most of us are good "starters" but poor "finishers" of everything we begin. Moreover, people are prone to give up at the first signs of defeat. There is no substitute for persistence. The person, who makes persistence his watch-word, discovers that "Old Man Failure" finally becomes tired, and makes his departure. Failure cannot cope with persistence.

NEGATIVE PERSONALITY. There is no hope of success for the person who repels people through a negative personality. Success comes through the application of power, and power is attained through the cooperative efforts of other people. A negative personality will not induce cooperation.

LACK OF CONTROLLED SEXUAL URGE. Sex energy is the most powerful of all the stimuli which move people into action. Because it is the most powerful of the emotions, it must be controlled, through transmutation, and converted into other channels.

UNCONTROLLED DESIRE FOR "SOMETHING FOR NOTHING."The gambling instinct drives millions of people to failure. Evidence of this may be found in a study of the Wall Street crash of "29, during which millions of people tried to make money by gambling on stock margins.

LACK OF A WELL DEFINED POWER OF DECISION. Men who succeed reach decisions promptly, and change them, if at all, very slowly. Men who fail, reach decisions, if at all, very slowly, and change them frequently, and quickly. Indecision and procrastination are twin brothers. Where one is found, the other may usually be found also. Kill off this pair before they completely "hog-tie" to the treadmill of failure.

WRONG SELECTION OF A MATE IN MARRIAGE. This a most common cause of failure. The relationship of marriage brings people intimately into contact. Unless this relationship is harmonious, failure is likely to follow. Moreover, it will be a form of failure that is marked by misery and unhappiness, destroying all signs of ambition.

OVER CAUTION.Thon is as bad as under-caution. The person who takes no chances, generally has to take whatever is left when others are through choosing. Over-caution is as bad as under-caution. Both are extremes to be guarded against. Life itself is filled with the element of chance.

WRONG SELECTION OF ASSOCIATES IN BUSINESS. This is one of the most common causes of failure in business. In marketing personal services, one should use great care to select an employer who will be an inspiration, and who is, himself, intelligent and successful. We emulate those with whom we associate most closely. Pick an employer who is worth emulating.

SUPERSTITION AND PREJUDICE. Superstition is a form of fear. It is also a sign of ignorance. Men who succeed keep open minds and are afraid of nothing.

WRONG SELECTION OF VOCATION. No man can succeed in a line of endeavor which he does not like. The most essential step in the marketing of personal services is that of selecting an occupation into which you can throw yourself wholeheartedly.

LACK OF CONCENTRATION OF EFFORT. The "jack-of-all-trades" seldom is good at any. Concentrate all of your efforts on one definite chief aim.

THE HABIT OF INDISCRIMINATE SPENDING. The spendthrift cannot succeed, mainly because he stands eternally in fear of poverty. From the habit of systematic saving by putting aside a definite percentage of your income.

LACK OF ENTHUSIASM. Without enthusiasm one cannot be convincing. Moreover,, enthusiasm is contagious, and the person, who has it, under control, is generally welcome in any group of people.

INTOLERANCE. The person with a "closed" mind on any subject seldom gets ahead. Intolerance means that one has stopped acquiring knowledge. The most damaging forms of intolerance are those with religious, racial, and political differences of opinion.

INTEMPERANCE. The most damaging forms of intemperance are connected with eating, strong drink, and sexual activities. Overindulgence in any of these is fatal to success.

INABILITY TO COOPERATE WITH OTHERS. More people lose their positions and their big opportunities in life, because of this fault, than for all other reasons combined. It is a fault which no well-informed business man, or leader will tolerate.

POSSESSION OF POWER THAT WAS NOT ACQUIRED. (sons  and daughters of wealthy men, and others who inherit money which they did not earn). Power in the hands of one who did not acquire it gradually, is often fatal to success. Quick Riches are more dangerous than poverty.

INTENTIONAL DISHONESTY. There is no substitute for honesty. One may be temporarily dishonest by force of circumstances over which has no control, without permanent damage. But, there is no hope for the person who is dishonest by choice. Sooner or later, his deeds will catch up with him, and he will pay by loss of reputation, and perhaps even loss of liberty.

EGOTISM AND VANITY. These qualities serve as red lights which warn others to keep away. The are fatal to success.

GUESSING INSTEAD OF THINKING. Most people are too indifferent or lazy to acquire facts with which to think accurately. They prefer to act on "opinions" created by guesswork or snap-judgments.

LACK OF CAPITAL. This is a common cause of failure in business for the first time, without sufficient reserve of capital to absorb the shock of their mistakes, and to carry them over until they have established a reputation.

In these thirty major causes of failure is found a description of the tragedy of life, which obtains for particularly every person who tries and fails. It will be helpful if you can induce someone who knows you will to go over this list with you, and help to analyze you by the thirty causes of failure. It may be beneficial if you try this alone. Most people cannot see themselves as others see them. You  may be one who cannot.

The oldest of admonitions is "Mn, know thyself!" If you market merchandise successfully, you must know the merchandise. The same is true in marketing personal services. You Should know your strength in order that you may call attention to it when selling your services. You can yourself only through accurate analysis.

                                           Extract from Napoleon Hill  "THINK and GROW RICH"